This is a poll for the ladies...(grown women please)?

Who likes being called a "slut" or a "dirty lil " while be ravaged by your lover , cuz the other day , this girl was riding me and starting choking me calln me "dum muthafuka" saying "i hate you" and it turned me on so bad (this was new thing for me ) and u busted immediatly, never felt anything like it and now im lookn fo more , usually its me doing the ravaging but now i want to be ravaged , how many ladies have experienced this as the victim or nonvictim , and how many like it ?